Life Coaching Services
The feeling of starting over is nothing new to me, but that does not mean I enjoyed the process. It can be overwhelming and uncomfortable.
The divorce procedure can take a toll not only on your financial situation, but also your emotional state and self- esteem.
Feelings of rejection, failure, anger and sadness can make even the strongest person weak. Mix that weakness with confusion, frustration and a sense of helplessness, and you’ve got a recipe for downward spiral cake. Let’s just say I’ve eaten enough of that to know my life’s purpose is to help others keep that cake off their menu.
I started my career in the Air Force at the prime age of 17. After a short two years, I learned enough to think I knew everything, so I got married. After 10 years of proving I didn’t know anything, I separated from the Air Force and my wife, leaving an unsatisfying career and beginning life as a part-time dad. I made mistakes and had small victories for the next 10 years
as I tried to find my way as an American DJ living in England and working throughout Europe. I was learning that I still had unresolved guilt stemming from decisions I made in my 20s which rolled over into another failed attempt at marriage that began and ended in three short years. I came to the realization that if I didn’t get my act together, I’d die a lonely, unhappy old man. Thus, the journey to redeem myself began.
I hung up my headphones on a full-time basis and now only play music as a hobby. I have read the self-help books and taken part in several events designed to open life to amazing possibilities by looking inward and being authentic with myself and the world around me. I obtained a certificate from The Southwest Institute for Healing Arts in the field of life coaching. This training provided the tools and education that allow me to help others find balance and direction in the midst of turmoil.
A life coach isn’t a therapist or a counselor. In short, a therapist heals, a counselor instructs, and a coach creates. As a life coach, using special tools, I attempt to help you find out what you really want out of life so you can design a plan to get you there. While you are going through your divorce, we’ll try to unblock obstacles that keep you from making clear thought-out decisions that disrupt the process and bog it down. We’ll work on bringing your self esteem and positive thinking back into balance.
Sometimes just finding a new direction and a plan of action are all that stands between you and a happy new life.
When people are experiencing a family law conflict, a high likelihood exists they could benefit from our firm’s life coaching services. As our practice has evolved over the years, we have come to realize that an individual’s personal and emotional needs significantly impact how and when a legal conflict is resolved. To achieve the best and highest result for everyone involved, we are here to help you work through your overwhelmed place of powerlessness to a state of balance with our life coaching services.
You see, not only do we want you to be taken care of in the short term, but once your case is complete, we want to ensure that you have the tools necessary to begin living a new life in which your family dynamic has been re-defined. Aside from your case goals, on a personal level, we are equipped to help you identify the following:
What do I want in my life after the case is over?
What is my plan for getting to the life I want after the case is over?
How can I ensure that I remain consistent in doing the personal work necessary for achieving the happiness I desire? In other words, who is going to hold me accountable?
Through our resident life coach, our firm’s life coaching services help us provide this ongoing emotional support to you. At the same time, the rest of us will handle the legal aspects of your case. Together, our players will work in concert to help you achieve the best long term result for your family.
Our life coaching services are provided at no cost to our clients as they proceed through the system with our legal team. Clients are not required to participate in life coaching and life coaching may not be appropriate for all individuals. Life coaching is not psychotherapy, psychology, counseling or therapy. Our life coach will not give you legal or personal advice. Our life coach dialogues with you and uses tools designed to empower you to arrive at your own conclusions about your own life.
In the context of your family law case, we believe there is real value in you becoming clear headed about the past and your future. Our goal is to re-shift your thinking so most of it is focused on your present needs. As you train your mind to focus on creating happiness in the here and now, your judgment cannot and will not be clouded by the fact that you may have been wronged in the past, nor the fear that you could be hurt again.
That is true power. You deserve to be empowered. We can help you take your power back.
For more information about our life coaching services, call our office at 602-230-2333 today.